The Soul Yearns

Many a times, we become the cause of someone's hurt without even realizing it. The reason is probably simple. We are too wrapped up in our own individual worlds. We tend to look at a situation only from our perspective. We don't pause to consider the other person's situation. We don't take into account the key reason why the other person might be behaving in a certain manner. For all you know, the current reaction you are witnessing is probably a reaction against one of your earlier actions or even the lack of it.  You need not necessarily blame yourself for this. It's human to react quickly to a situation. But if you want to resolve the issue, if you want to make sure the other person also get his/her due, if you want to make sure that your current reaction doesn't lead to permanent damage from which both of you can't extricate yourself, a future that both of you will regret, then you need to learn to pause. You need to learn how to put your own selfish ...

Throughout my life, time and time again, I have developed casual friendship or acquaintanceship  with people at my workplace and even with friends of close friends. I might have even hung around with them on a regular basis. But the moment this 'hanging out together' stops they become a distant memory or not even in that in most cases. Chances are that I am unlikely to even think about them and in most cases, I'm likely to even forget their names. But when it comes to people I considered close, even if I haven't met them in years they will continue to come into my thoughts time and again. In both cases, it is a result of the quality of the relationship I enjoyed with those people. As far as the former category is concerned, the relationship was very superficial. It was for the sake of momentary pleasures. In the case of the latter, it was less about the sensory pleasures and more about the intellectual and emotional connect. The same is the case with our relationsh...

When you think of the relationship of the earth and sun, it gives you a glimpse of the relationship between man and God. The sun is a ball of gas, God is a spirit. But Earth is a solid object and so is Man who is made of the same earth.  The Sun continues to remain at the center of our solar system. Similarly, God continues to be an immutable eternal force at the center of all creation. Now earth revolves around the Sun and remains within reach of its gravitational pull. Similarly, it is up to man to accept God as the center of his life, and stay connected within the gravitational pull of God.  The difference lies in the fact that we have a choice whereas the Earth doesn't. While choice is great, it's this same choice that also becomes dangerous.  Imagine, what could happen if the earth had the choice of telling the Sun you are too hot and so I can't be associated with you! All of life on earth depends on this eternal association. The source of all f...

I was reading about Job. And what struck me was the reason for Job's suffering - a mere one-upmanship kind of argument between God and the devil.  And poor Job who was not at fault at all bore the brunt. Ok, he got twice as much back once God's position was proved right. But is that enough to take away the pain of loss? Maybe it helps ease the pain but it doesn't take away the loss itself.  The suffering of several generations of Israelites in Egypt is another example that comes to mind. In the grand scheme of things, it was probably a necessity. We don't know why it was a necessity. Why did so many thousands have to suffer slavery and perish in an unknown land without ever knowing any peace? Why did so many children have to perish without seeing their first birthdays? The obvious answer is, to fulfill their role in the grand plan, which neither we know nor they knew much about. Again for God, those 400 years may have just been a blip on the screen. But for those w...

Growing up in a Christian household can actually prove detrimental to one’s faith. You are taught to believe in the teachings of the church with your eyes closed and mind shut. And if you ask questions that do not have an obvious answer then you are considered as someone lacking in faith. I think this is the case with most religions. Don’t question what we have been following for eons or you are damned. I am assuming that to be the case for many of us who have grown up in religious households, whichever religion it might have been.  If that's the case why do we expect anyone to accept our belief? The non-believers, as we generally like to call anyone who doesn't belong to our own faith, are doing the same thing we do -- accept what they grew up hearing without questioning its veracity. I for one find this behavior unacceptable. What's wrong with doubting? Au contraire, I find it quite healthy. It gives me a reason to truly believe rather than purporting to be a be...